IMPROVE COMMUNICATION AND RELATIONSHIPS In High Wycombe
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IMPROVE COMMUNICATION AND RELATIONSHIPS In High Wycombe– Did you know that Communication and relationships are connected to our blood! How might that be? your thinking. Well my analogy is that, when you leave a test tube of your blood for your doctor, that you provide him with far more information about you than the obvious, “Hmm… it looks red.” Right! NO. So…
Quote “Without pain, there would be no suffering, without suffering we would never learn from our mistakes. To make it right, pain and suffering is the key to all windows, without it, there is no way of life.”
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Facts, there are a zillion tests that can be performed with a blood sample that will tell him all kinds of highly personal medical details about you, many of which you’re not presently aware. In a very similar way, your conversations are like blood samples in that they too reveal a great deal more about you than you realise. Speech researchers have examined this topic in numerous studies.
One of the most remarkable findings is that when you speak, less than one-tenth of the message you convey comes from the literal meaning of the words that you use. More than one-third of the message conveyed comes from how you say it (your tone of voice, your cadence, how loudly you speak, and so on). And more than one-half of the meaning of your message comes from non-verbal cues (your posture, your facial expression, your body language, and so on).
So not only do “actions speak louder than words,” but also your tone of voice and your visual cues speak louder than words too. All those hours you spent working out exactly what you were going to say during an important conversation with an actual or prospective girlfriend/boyfriend (or wife/husband) were partly misdirected. You should have spent far more time practicing your delivery and your body language. But you’re not sure how to best practice your delivery and body language, you say?
Recently a colleague at my local networking Event Chiltern Business Connection ‘CBC’, Wycombe Heights Golf Club, High Wycombe; highly recommend Toastmasters International in Beaconsfield, Buckinghamshire. (There are other local equivalent in your area) which will provide you with at least rudimentary public speaking skills. You may never have to address an audience of men/women who are prospective love partners, but your one-on-one communications proficiency will be greatly improved if you’ve mastered your fear of speaking to a crowd. (You’ll also enhance your career prospects, by the way, if you can lead meetings and other corporate gatherings with expertise and confidence).
Another excellent venue for improving your delivery and body language skills is a good acting or local drama group. A class at your local community adult education centre, will get you the result in better understanding others and in the art of communication. There’s a side line bonus to drama class: While learning to act, not only will your communications skills improve, but you’re also likely to meet an attractive men/woman or become a social, member of the community.
Invest in yourself naturally, improve communications and relationships, however if there is a deeper rooted cause of concern I’d like for you to get in contact with me Genovieve Feasey ‘The Choice To Change.com’ where I can offer support Therapeutically to improve communication and relationships in High Wycombe, to build Self Confidence and Self Esteem, using Powerful Processes that have you feeling in Total Control of your life and communicating with Everyone whom you choose to associate with.
