Help With Bullying In Any Relationship. Is there a bully in your relationship?
I Wonder how many of us feel connected with other people? Do they make you feel grounded, secure, needed, valued, supported, happy, good about yourself, comforted, and loved? Read on and understand the mind of a Bully! And if you still need further help contact me for some Half Price Advice 1st Session
Since relationship is the main focus of your life, when you’re not in a romantic relationship, you’re probably looking for one. Allow me Genovieve Feasey ‘Relationship Solution Therapist, in Wycombe Bucks, help you, to teach others how to love and “do” intimacy with you.
When Love is in bloom, you light up the world. Your enthusiasm, creativity, charisma, and openness make you irresistible. Your glow ignites the glow in others and helps them grow into their full potential.
Lovers are wonderful people to know and love. But as the day is followed by the night,the Lover’s glow casts a shadow. At their worst, Lovers are “energy vampires,” or ‘bullies’ over-connecters who fuse with a grip that can be intensely smothering. As Bully, can be desperately needy, self-centered, and depleting. In anger, they can whip up a storm and strike out with lethal words, wanting to hurt those who have hurt them.
Vamps/Bullies can burn out the people in their lives with drama after drama. Vamps can be very charismatic and sexy in relationships. When they turn their attention in your direction, they can charm the pants off you. As long as the experience lasts, you’ll feel as though you are the most brilliant, fascinating creature in the universe.
The trouble is,it may not last long. As soon as they’ve got you hooked, they are likely to move on to greener pastures because Vamps/Bullies are attracted to the unavailable. Deep inside, they feel unworthy; therefore they don’t want to be members of any team that would have them. Lovers have a special talent for intimacy, but until they learn how to be self-nurturing and to give without expecting something in return, they often use moments of connection to feed off the energy of others.
They seduce you so that you’ll validate them in the mistaken belief that this gives them an identity. Sadly, they often don’t know how beloved and wonderful they are. If these words seem a bit harsh, just remember that the Vamp/Bully is only the unhealed aspect of the Lover. Every “Passion Signature” or, the signature style you express yourself and seek fulfillment, has light and dark qualities. We all have our share. Knowing the drawbacks to your Passion Signature can help you overcome your commitment phobia and discover your full potential.
Allow us to work together to discover the secrets to a deeper Relationship and finding ‘Love’, click here… and contact me. You’ll also find the tools to address Life and Work balance, you will find a guide for overcoming or attracting the Bully/Vamp personalities and people in your life, you’ll learn to attract the committed loving relationship and marriage you deserve.
