Counselling Victims Of Abuse, in Buckinghamshire

Counselling victims of Abuse, in Buckinghamshire is available to those in need of support if a victim of abuse Physically, Emotionally, Verbally.  Read this article on how To Recognise the signs and ‘Stop’ Abuse.  Need a good listening ear or someone trusting to tell them your  thoughts or secrets!!!  There are many of us that just don’t know what the next step can be and how do ‘Stop’ it, please read on and then ask for support.

Counselling For Abuse victims, Buckinghamshire
Counselling For Abuse victims, Buckinghamshire

Therapy For Abuse Wycombe, BucksAlso there are many resource’s to help you address the issue, look to the bottom of page to get Links.Im Genovieve Relationship Solution Therapist, offering couselling victims of abuse, in Buckinghamshire, please call if you need some guidance or advice! Click Here…In the following areas, ask these questions to see if you are a victim of abuse:

Need Support? Counselling Victims of Abuse, Wycombe Buckinghamshire

Therapy For Abuse Wycombe, BucksAlso there are many resource’s  to help you address the issue, look to the bottom of page to get Links.Im Genovieve Relationship Solution Therapist, offering couselling victims of abuse, in Buckinghamshire, please call if you need some guidance or advice! Click Here…In the following areas, ask these questions to see if you are a victim of abuse:

  1. Humiliation, degradation, discounting, negating. judging, criticizing:
    • Does anyone make fun of you or put you down       in front of others?
    • Do they tease you, use sarcasm as a way to put you down or degrade you?
    • When you complain do they say that “it was just a joke” and that you are too sensitive?
    • Do they tell you that your opinion or feelings are “wrong?”
    • Does anyone regularly ridicule, dismiss, disregard your opinions, thoughts, suggestions, and feelings?
  2. Domination, control, and shame:
    • Do you feel that the person treats you like a  child?
    • Do they constantly correct or chastise you because your behavior is “inappropriate?”
    • Do you feel you must “get permission” before going somewhere or before making even small decisions?
    • Do they control your spending?
    • Do they treat you as though you are inferior to them?
    • Do they make you feel as though they are always right?
    • Do they remind you of your shortcomings?
    • Do they belittle your accomplishments, your aspirations, your plans or even who you are?
    • Do they give disapproving, dismissive,  contemptuous, or condescending looks, comments, and behaviour?
  3. Accusing  and blaming, trivial and unreasonable demands or expectations, denies own shortcomings:
    • Do they accuse you of something contrived in their own minds when you know it isn’t true?
    • Are they unable to laugh at themselves?
    • Are they extremely sensitive when it comes to others making fun of them or making any kind of comment that seems to show a lack of respect?
    • Do they have trouble apologizing?
    • Do they make excuses for their behavior or tend to blame others or circumstances for their mistakes?
    • Do they call you names or label you?
    • Do they blame you for their problems or unhappiness?
    • Do they continually have “boundary violations” and disrespect your valid requests?
  4. Emotional distancing and the “silent treatment,” isolation, emotional abandonment or neglect:
    • Do they use pouting, withdrawal or withholding attention or affection?
    • Do they not want to meet the basic needs or use neglect or abandonment as punishment?
    • Do they play the victim to deflect blame onto you instead of taking responsibility for their actions and attitudes?
    • Do they not notice or care how you feel?
    • Do they not show empathy or ask questions to gather information?
  5. Codependence and enmeshment:
    • Does anyone treat you not as a separate person but instead as an extension of themselves?
    • Do they not protect your personal boundaries and share information that you have not approved?
    • Do they disrespect your requests and do what they think is best for you?
    • Do they require continual contact and haven’t developed a healthy support network among their own peers?

SO WHAT TO DO NOW being a victim of abuse… SIT WITH THE INFORMATION, SPEAK TO SOMEONE WHOM YOU CAN TRUST OR GO TO THE AUTHORITIES, SUPPORT GROUP, READ MORE OVER THE INTERNET AND SOURCE ADVICE. IF YOU FEEL REALLY STUCK YOU CAN CALL ME AND I MAYBE ABLE TO SIGN POST IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. YOU HAVE UNLIMITED RESOURCES AND STRENGTHS, AND PERSISTENCE KEEP GOING TO BE SAFE AND HAPPY.

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