Information on why feelings matter for a Woman, we maybe aware that Men are designed to deal with facts, since that tendency helps you to solve problems and get results. Feelings are of less importance to men. Generally, men are able to focus easily on one thing at a time, women appear to have a pretty good idea of how men are feeling at any point in time. However men may not be happy about what their feeling, but can usually identify a given feeling with a high degree of accuracy.
In contrast, women frequently juggle many feelings simultaneously. Those feelings are often appear as conflicting ones, and therefore we women can become very confused (and therefore stressed) from those unresolved emotional issues. As we’ve already discussed previous blog, women resolve those conflicts by talking, which works well unless too much time has elapsed between such cathartic conversations. In that case the eventual “decompression” can be emotionally explosive for whom ever’s standing in the way. Therefore, the first lesson for men wanting to learn how to communicate better with women is to focus on her feelings rather than on facts or information.
That’s what will be most important to her. But exactly what are feelings? Here are some examples: Happy Sad Angry
Bored Nervous Depressed
Furious Sleepy Jealous
Excited Frustrated Ecstatic
Sounds easy so far, right? Here’s the catch. Most of the time, women don’t tell you what their feeling. They will tell you about their day or discuss with you whatever else is on our minds. We may say “She/he did this …” or “You/they did that …” but then you’ll have to infer what we actually are feeling about the event in question.
This is easier said than done, but if you can infer and articulate what a woman is feeling, she’ll know that:
You’ve listened
You’ve understood
You care
If you can achieve those worthy goals, it will make her feel much closer to you. It’s not as difficult to do as you might expect, but there are some rules to learn and there are some pitfalls to avoid:
- Here’s a very important (and primary) caveat. The goal here is to focus on her feelings and not on your feelings.
- It’s not uncommon for men who learn these techniques to assume that women are just as interested in men’s feelings. (Especially because many women claim that they want a sensitive man who’s not afraid to let his “vulnerable side” show).
Women want a strong man — one who has his act together. So if you need to talk through your own feelings with someone else, do it with your male buddies. Despite their claims to the contrary, a generalisation (not always so) is that women do not want to hear about your problems. They want to talk about their problems, which of course is what this topic is about. Why Feelings Matter for women. I’m Genovieve Feasey a Psychotherapist and Hypnotherapist, i’m Passionate about sharing and working with individuals whom will benefit from experiences of the Therapeutic Processes of Relationship Coaching or Counselling the 2 are different processes; however as an Integrative Psychotherapist and using a ‘Tool Box’ of processes from different psychotherapeutic Approaches, will and does enhance techniques and encourage fast response to ‘Outcomes or Goals’. If at any point you want to discuss this further please get in touch my link is here…
